I bet you could write a book on that crap. [ They have all the objective time in the world, although they might not be able to finish even if they did... considering that it's all in their heads. ]

But I agree that there are more minuses than pluses - the only plus would probably be the fact that we're not alone in this crap, or meeting some decent people.

[ "Some". There are some people that she would have been better off, you know. Not meeting. ]